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At The Back => The Dressing Room => Topic started by: WITH FULL DISTORTION on April 20, 2008, 09:38:35 AM
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$%&#ing Hails Guys
not sure if anyone noticed anything(i guess not) but, i´ve been in a pretty Bad mood since 1 year and a half . Due to"feeling" that the relationship betweenmyself and my fiancee isn´t going very well.
She´s as important as breathing pure oxygen, playing Guitar, Drinking water, food.. etc..
and i think she couldn´t handle all the distance between us.
i guess it´s a clichê kind of Topic and something that sometimes is not so good to hear/read.. but i think i need toshare this with someone.. otherwise, it will consume myself from inside.
she enlisted a lot of things that are responsible for the break up(she broke up in april, 05).. all are true motives like : Distance, (i live 4000km away from her,and we are(where) together for 8 year. i´m 100% faithful to her)jealousy, etc.. But, i think all of them could be solved with a good chat and stuffs like that.
But she said that she couldn´t deal with the situation anymore. She said its consuming her, and she´s getting ill with all the stress etc.
Q:/
so, i´m still digging the situation.. and i´m not succeeding that much in handling the LOST
she IS extremely important to me.. and i´m kinda Desolated with all the things.
i´m kinda feeling my feelings are being suppressed,muffled by the ammount of things i have to do.. and then,i didn´t dig the situation yet.. its getting digged by my brain like : little bit today, little bit more tomorrow, and etc.
Q:/
JP
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Mate, I wish I knew what to say. You don't know me from a bar of soap, but I'm really sorry to hear you're upset. I was in the Navy for years, so I can kinda understand where you're coming from.
I don't know what to say... I don't want to insult you with platitudes, but things do seem to eventually get better...
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That sucks.
I'm not going to claim to know how you feel, but I can imagine how I'd feel, thats a big part of your life to suddenly be over (maybe not so suddenly, but I guess it feels that way when it hits).
I think only 2 things will help, one is time, the other is a willingness to heal, if you don't want to get over it you won't, or it will take much much longer.
It's not easy, but keep your head, and it will get easier.
And there are always groupies.... :twisted:
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Hails Man
i understand Your Point too.
q:)
thanks for the post anyway.
jp
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I´ve been overwhelmed by a lot of activities since the break up and its keeping my mind busy of thinking in those stuffs.. but, its getting slowly being digged by me and that´s what makes me feel bad.
Sad, dont want to do anything, even watch some music video, listen to cds orplay the guitar.
i had to , as part of that lot of activities, do a gig with thyresis just one day after the break up.
Q:/
i´ve being Dizzy all the "before and after" the show.. due to not sleeping properly.
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olá! There is no way to bring her beside you? Marry?
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I already proposed that.. Q:/
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if there's no chance of you getting back together, then you need to start occupying yourself by playing guitar, a lot,
or doing something else that's either useful or you genuinely enjoy doing, or BOTH.
This way when you look back at it later, you won't say "man I wish I havn't wasted all that time away doing nothing."
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I feel your pain, but silent rage is right. you need to find something to occupy yourself with, I know it's hard but you should be able to find something. my condolences at this difficult time
Elliot
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Q:/
thansk guys
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F*king hails JP. I too sympathize. I speak from experience when I say that it will always touch a place in your heart however you do have to move and and when the time is right, you will let go and do so. Look on the bright side, you are now qualified to write a blues song.
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i've been through exactly that man.
it sucks !!!!
dont repress it.. write some brutal metal, break some stuff (inexpencive, unused stuff.. GREAT stress relief).
oh.. one other word.
GROUPIES! :twisted:
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:(
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And there are always groupies.... :twisted:
there are but they dont happen in my case...
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Only you can stop Threadnomancy!! :evil: