Is it a Mexican Fender gordiji?
I've never owned a US Fender, but I do find I wear into the fretwire on Mexican Fenders a lot faster than I do on Japanese Fenders.
I took my Mexican Baja tele into Feline when it was only 3 or 4 months old. I went for a complete refret with Dunlop wire on that one (I changed to even heavier frets at the same time). I'm still wearing them, but a lot less than the originals.
My Roadworn strat (also Mexican), on the other hand, has been getting a severe beating over the last few months, but the frets seem to be holding up better...