I'd have picked better words than passive and active if I could of thought of them, but the meaning is there. There's a difference between folks who who go to a few gigs and year and buy a handful of records and people who go to a few gigs a week and buy dozens of records a month, y'know? Not just monetarily, most gigs I go to are cheapy local jobs.
Neither way is better or worse, obviously, there's no problem with loving the music you listen to in your teens for the rest of your life and being quite happy with it, but it sorta feeds into the "nothing good gets released anymore" rubbish that has irritated me on here (and plenty places elsewhere) before. If you don't want to look for it, that's fine, but don't presume it isn't there, y'know? Same deal.
Fair points of course, and I am guilty of saying nothing good gets released anymore and of only going to a few gigs a year. I still buy quite a lot of records but they're mostly back-catalogue.
But I do think when we have these discussions you imply - perhaps unintentionally - that there's a kind of moral superiority in going to lots of gigs and actively seeking out new music ("moral" is the wrong word there, but I can't think how else to put it).
I
have done those things - I didn't stop listening to new music in 1985! I was never "underground" (another dent to my credibility) but all through my 20s and even into my 30s I was going to lots of gigs, buying lots of new music. I guess I
was an active music fan, just about.
But I'm 46 now and, whether I like it or not, I've changed. It wasn't intentional, it just happened. The fact is, I don't enjoy gigs any more - they're too loud and I don't like being crushed in rowdy crowds and getting home late with my ears ringing. I try to listen to new things but, like it or not, they rarely move me and more often than not they just sound like retreads of something I heard years ago. I can't force myself to like it.
Of course I could be much more active seeking out new music - and deep down I'm sure there
is lots of good stuff I'm missing - but I'm not going to do it just for the sake of it.
Look Neil, I know it's impossible to win an argument with you

. But maybe, just maybe, you'll get into your 40s one day and find you experience something like this yourself. Pax. :)