I think this option should be thrown out there: VHII + ITs. I have it in an H/S alder strat. The VHII has a wonderful dynamic range which can go from clean to metal with the right amp and technique. It really is a great crunchy uncompressed pickup with PAF roots. If you are going for less gain, more cleans and more rocks, then I also can't recommend the IT neck enough. You mentioned you don't go for 'that sound', but rather go for a good pickup that helps you play, and the IT can provide the middle of the gain road single coil for that. If you are used to higher gain pickups, then the jump down to the uncompressed VHII+IT will be great. As mentioned earlier, if you want more glassy single coil tones go for the Mothers Milk, but the IT can handle gain really really well as well as do wonderful 3D cleans. At mid gain they do the air moving SRV/Gallagher style of blues rock (as the name implies), since they have a great healthy amount of bass added to the sparkly single coil sound. Sped up blues licks of that era just make you grin, but cleans, slower blues, and less distorted sounds will also have that nice pretty and gutsy tone to it. In terms of pots, I have tried the Suhr style, 250k single volume, and 500k single volume, and all three of them had their ups and downs. I preferred the 500k pot for all pickups (single volume) from personal experience as it gave me an easier to overdrive sound on all positions. The Suhr wiring would probably be best for versatility.