Forming a proper band is a bitch, cuz it's easy enough to throw together a guy who can bang on the skins, another chap who can finger the bass right, and another who can tickle the keys on a synth, while you blast away on your guitar... but then there's the hard bit;
1 - You all have to want to play the same type of music (rare)
2 - You all have to be available to jam at the same time (very rare)
3 - And I dunno about you guys, but every drummer I've ever had has suffered from what appears to be A.D.D.
So far I've played like 10 gigs with my full band, and about 20 with only parts of my band. I got my bass player to play drums a few times (I taught him both instruments so he did a fine job :oops: ) when the drummer disappeared, and somehow managed to convince my synth player to do the bass on the keyboard (she felt very slighted at that... dunno why). Often enough, I've showed up to a gig and played a solo acoustic set because I couldn't get anyone else to show. B a s t a r d s, the lot of them :twisted:
All you can do, really, is just be VERY patient, and ALWAYS be on the lookout for players. Eventually the odds are that you'll find people who WILL be available and like playing the same jams you do.
I'm done rambling now :D