I simply chose the tallest and widest fret available.

It had to be tall so that bending and vibrato would be a lot easier to do. Together with the extra width tall frets also make it possible to play with a very light touch.
I must admit I used to be a little bit afraid of the idea of huge frets, hearing people complaining that they press strings out of tune and things like that. Finally it was Tim's posts about his experiences with 6000's that convinced me about having my Strat fitted with these. Having experienced how comfortable they are decision was easy so this time it was obvious my Artist would also have 6000's.
I'm not picky about neck dimensions. My Artist has a much thicker neck than my Strat-copy but I enjoy playing both. My Strat plays faster (think metal) but I feel bending is easier on the Artist (think blues).
My Artist doesn't have binding. I wanted to achieve a very simple and natural look so I asked the luthier not to paint any stripes on the guitar.
The tech who did the refret is a friend of mine, the price was relatively low and it's confidential. Anyway, I don't think you're interested in Hungarian prices. ;)