I would still say look at the VHII, but the Emerald and Black Dog are probably worth consideration too.
I have the VHII in my Am Std Strat and it nails early EVH tones. The bottom end is rich, EVH style single notes seem to leap from the amplifier and the top end detail, even up at the dusty end is impressive. It's bright, but not as bright as many mass produced pickups. It packs plenty of warmth and reacts well to the tone control (you get more mileage out of your controls with BKPs).
I too share you thoughts on pickups. I prefer lower powered pickups that shape the tone, rather that a pickup that drives the amp.