Good, I'll tell her :lol:
I think she did say something about some physiological thing once, about the structure of your throat or something, I forget exactly, that does preclude about 10% of people from singing. But anywho
Since I started playin at about the same time as a bunch of people, have seen many other people start and taught a few I have noticed that there are many degrees of speed that people learn with, and some people arent going to get all that far in one human lifetime, but I dont think theres a single person that has doesnt have some neural defect that cant learn music to some level. There are degrees of aptitude, and degrees of expressiveness and degrees of affinity for expression through music (as per, I imagine, other arts), but anyone can learn it. Those that say they cant in my experience, are those that get bored or frustrated because they dont sound how they want to instantly, and then the make excuses about incapability later to rationalise quitting.