Well, it's been two years since i started this thread...
I did a LOT of research in the mean time, tried out quite a number of guitars that had BKP's that were mentioned in the thread, tried to keep with guitars as similar (wood wise) to my PRS SE as possible, and...
Came to the conclusion that HairyChris's suggestion of a Cld Sweat set would be the most likely candidate.
So i took the chance, ordered a calibrated, covered set of Cold Sweats a month or so ago.
Yesterday my techie called and said he had put them in, (including some mods to the guitar, which includes 3 mini toggles for individual coil splitting and for out of phase, and some PRS USA brass bridge saddles to replace the shoddy SE saddles), and it turns out these were EXACTLY what this guitar needed to get the best possible tone for what i use it for.
Neck is really well rounded, very decent definition, never muddy, and the bridge has very good balance of highs/mids, very tight sound, but never over the top.
So once again, thanks to Tim and the other staff at BKP for making these excellent pickups, thanks to everyone that contributed to the thread and answered my questions, and special thanks to HairyChris for pointing me towards the Cold Sweats :D
Quick phone pic of the end result :
http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b366/DanielGravesNL/04dba992.jpg