I recommend you dont worry about the actual monitors all that much and treat the living shitee out of your room. Monitors are correctly acompanied by 10 metric shitee-tonnes of rockwool and open-celled foam.
Also, adam A-series or yamaha HS.
Edit: headphones you know well, at low volume, are preferable (to me at least) than low end monitors in an untreated room. My default recommendation of ATHM50s ftw.