books : "La vie devant soi" (sorry, don't know the englisg title) from Emile Ajar (aka Romain Gary).
movies : Roberto Benigni's "vita e bella"
songs : well, quite a few but the obvious winner is "Army dreamer" by Kate Bush.
Oh and FWIW : I never pretented to be anything like a "big, burly, hairy-chested macho" - only hairy-chested ;)