Really depends on what "bedroom level" means to you... Living in an old house in a small town with rather friendly neighbours, my own bedroom level (litteraly) is only a couple Db less than rehearsal / small gig level.
If you can crank your amp a bit, something in the 15/22w range with a good master volume and/or a decent attenuator will work fine for home and is usually enough for gigging. Else, the best _real_ bedroom level (not louder than a cheap acoustic guitar) tone I got was using my (6V6s modded, IOW a 22watters) HRDx thru a palmer PDI. Not as good as going thru a cab, but better than trying to get the same cranked tone at the same volume using an attenuator and cab.
Hybrid modelling amps... well, I have to admit the Vox VT30 is very far from bad _for a cheap, hybrid amp_. It's something I could use for home practice (nb: it does have a builtin "attenuator" that let you "crank" the amp at low volume), but it doesn't stand an A/B test vs a true tube amp.
pods etc, sorry, not for me, call me a corksniffer if you want but there's something so organic with true tubes that you won't get with anything else - possibly no one else but you will tell the difference, but YOU will tell and that's enough.
To make a long story short, if I had to make my rig usable at "real" bedroom level, I'd certainly stick to a 22watters and buy a palmer PDI - it's not perfect but it's the best compromise I found so far.
My 2 cents...