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If you have an excuse to come past mine I would walk you through the process quickly
i would snap up the offer if i were you!! - its a tricky process if you dont follow the basic rules - and you'll learn loads!
i didn't see a rocker gauge on the list? I'd work up the neck with that first, mark on the tape any high spots then work them flat with a good file (stew mac 'cant saw' is my fav) then take the frets down to the lowest dip (2nd fret 'A' normally) and crown.
Dan erlewine made a great dvd on the subject if you can find it.
The notched straiht edge is pretty inportant to me, you can make one from a £10 straight edge from b and q. I like to know what the wood is doing when adjusting the truss rod - then level accordingly, i guess its not essential tho.
what is essential is preparing a good working area, once the neck is adjusted and you've started with the file you dont want to be moving the guitar about. Taking the neck off is sometimes easier - it moves about a bit tho unless you have a way of keeping it fairly still and solid,
cheers
p.s if its laquered maple pull the tape off towards the middle from both edges first!