I bought gold hardware for a project which went tits up before I finished it. After laying it on a few guitars to see if it would suit, I would say that it really does depend on the guitar. On 90% of guitars it really does look 'orrible.
It's not a massive job to change the hardware though if you really feel the need. I'd aso have a chat with Feline or someone regarding putting a headstock vaneer on. On the surface, it sholdn't cost too much (but probably more tan you'd think due to the refinishing)