I surely can understand how you feel (all been there), in fact I broke necks on two of my guitars due to shaky stages and bad guitar stands.
So what, gotta get over it. Even a Les Paul with a broken neck can still fetch a million bucks (=> Gary Moore/Peter Green LP). In the end it's what you get out of it in tone and not what the lacquer on it looks like.
And nowadays I like guitars to look a bit beaten up. Whenever I play a brand new guitar without any chips or so, I feel like a bedroom w**ker :O)