Attenuators are silly for home use. Don't buy attenuators for home use. Home use is not what attenuators were designed for.
That's rather a sweeping statement. I must be silly then for using a hotplate with all my recent amps at home. The hotplate allows me to use the same amp at home, at rehearsals, and at gigs.
Even master volume amps usually sound noticeably better when you can run the master up at, say, 3-4. A hotplate using -8 or -12dB attenuation will allow you to do that at home. In my experience, most amps will sound better running the MV a bit higher, with a bit of attenuation, compared to just using the MV for volume control.
With a non-MV amp, using an attenuator at home is essential, as it is the only real volume control you have, if you want to get any OD from the amp.
All this is, of course, just my opinion. Maybe I am just silly.
I think each amp has to be assessed on it's own merits, as to whether an attenuator may help tone at home levels. Some amps (often high-gainers) are very much designed around pre-amp distortion, and these often have excellent master volume controls. Many other amps are designed around the need to get the power tubes cooking a little bit, to reduce the rather fizzy nature of most pre-amps. With these latter amps, an attenuator is an absolute Godsend.