It always amuses me that our particular batch of people (musicians, creative people) seem to always get into arguments about what is and isn't cr@p, and what we all ought be opening or closing our minds to!
Back in the late 70's I was heading towards being a rocker, and I was firmly in the "punk is cr@p" camp. "hey they can't even play their guitars properly..." etc
A couple of years later, at Uni, I was in a heavy rock band as lead git, and then started fronting my own blues rock band. I wrote most of the home-grown material for both bands. The camps around both bands did the usual "such-and-such is utter sh1t, why's it No 1?"... and I still joined in.
One day I suddenly realised that I had a lot of effort and emotion invested in the stuff I was doing. And I knew I was bloody good at it. And I imagined someone coming to one of our gigs and then saying to someone else (who hadn't) "oh they were sh1t, don't bother..." when what they really felt was "I didn't like it". But because of how they said it, they were adding their own "and I don't think you should either..." and because we're all like sheep looking for someone to lead us in the "right" direction - the poor fool who hadn't seen us wouldn't bother next time...
Although I was only imagining this, I felt really hurt by it. And then I realised I was doing it as well!!
That night, I came up with this - If one person writes a song, book, poem, paints a picture, stands up and sings, wotever... and then just one other person likes it and wants more, then it was valid and worth doing and "good". It is not really deserving of any adjective from me that implies "bad"... but I can say that I don't like it.
I still believe in what I came up with all those years ago (though I don't always act on it, sadly) - As a creative person myself, I don't feel I can honestly put down any act or genre, but I can say that I don't like them. I also think it's important that I'm allowed to say "I really can't be bothered to check them/it out any further, even if I'm missing something, that's the risk I'll have to take" - this is mainly because I haven't even got enough time or money to enjoy all the stuff I know I like...
Like everyone else I guess, there are also some types of music that I really can't stand - I have to switch them off or go elsewhere if someone else wants it on. But again, that's about me not liking it, or it managing to raise emotions in me that make me feel uncomfortable, doesn't necessarily mean there's anything wrong with the music itself.
And I'll even defend Celine Dion :D (although I don't personally get much joy out her performances and I am very unlikely to buy any of her stuff or go to a gig!).
Hands up how many people here have, or have had, a granny or similar who told them "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything dear..."
Maybe I'm showing my age here, but as the years roll on, this advice seems to be getting more and more relevant... (even though my actual behaviour is becoming more and more "Victor Meldrew" - just ask my wife :roll: )