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hamfist

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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #15 on: March 30, 2009, 04:46:05 PM »
What about a guitar teacher to refocus?

It's a good idea, but guitar teachers cost money.  :(

Learn from the net, or set a goal, like a song you've always wanted to play.  :)

Johnny, to be honest I struggle to be motivated to play or learn anything that is not directly linked to playing with a band of some description.
  My whole "raison d'etre" for playing guitar is to play with others in a live setting. If it's just playing for playing's sake or simply practicing just to get better,  then I lose all motivation.

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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #16 on: March 30, 2009, 04:48:02 PM »
You could always play to annoy your neighbours?
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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #17 on: March 30, 2009, 06:25:46 PM »
You could always play to annoy your neighbours?

I like my neighbours !

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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #18 on: March 31, 2009, 09:33:41 PM »
Ironically, my whole enjoyment of the music ( and the guitar as it's vehicle ) only kicked in properly, when the 'Tone  search' ended. 

Yes;  in the final stages a bit of the good old narrowing down of genre specific components - and getting the best prices was as enjoyable as ever - but  when ( after 30 years ) I could just let go of the gear search - and got on with trying to make my playing / music better, I felt great .

For me the eternal search ( which of course began again with every genre I experimented with ) - was not invalid as such , but to a great degree - it was an excuse to delay what was really needed ; - and that was bl***y hard work and study / practice.   

The three strongest elements of transition for me where :

1) Realising I could not respond adequately to someone saying " play us a tune then" .

2) Seeing a video of Joe Pass ( playing a "nice tune" ) whilst going D.I. into the front of house public address system - and still delivering a great  evening's music.

3) Reading Matt Otten ( After watching his silky smooth demos for Peerless Monarch guitars on 'You Tube ' e.t.c. )  - saying that for him the tone search was not a path he felt that important, compared to study of the music itself.

To now get excited ( as a self taught, not music college player ) about song structure, melodic possibilities, nice harmonies - and the challenges of solo playing.  Has been the best evolution I feel to have ever made.


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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #19 on: March 31, 2009, 10:26:28 PM »
1) Realising I could not respond adequately to someone saying " play us a tune then" .

Oh, I know that feeling.   :(


You could always play to annoy your neighbours?

I like my neighbours !

Presumably they're not like mine, who has built himself a little bus-stop-like shelter in the back garden so he can sit out there at 3 in the morning shouting "JAH!  RASTA-FAR-EYE!" at random intervals....  :|
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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #20 on: March 31, 2009, 10:29:57 PM »
Theres always something else.

Always.

And youre going to change your mind about stuff you have too.

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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #21 on: March 31, 2009, 11:28:56 PM »
1) Realising I could not respond adequately to someone saying " play us a tune then" .

Oh, I know that feeling.   :(
Same! :? haha i always seem to just play random notes until about 8 sound good together, and then play them over and over again :)
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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #22 on: April 01, 2009, 07:27:21 AM »
1) Realising I could not respond adequately to someone saying " play us a tune then" .

Oh, I know that feeling.   :(


You could always play to annoy your neighbours?

I like my neighbours !

Presumably they're not like mine, who has built himself a little bus-stop-like shelter in the back garden so he can sit out there at 3 in the morning shouting "JAH!  RASTA-FAR-EYE!" at random intervals....  :|

Lol !!

hamfist

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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #23 on: April 01, 2009, 07:28:30 AM »
And youre going to change your mind about stuff you have too.

Highly likely, knowing my history.     I just wish it would happen soon !!
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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #24 on: April 01, 2009, 09:14:08 AM »
Anyone want a tenner down on Alan still having the same gear in 12 months time?  :lol:

Didn't think so!
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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #25 on: April 01, 2009, 09:36:00 AM »
Anyone want a tenner down on Alan still having the same gear in 12 months time?  :lol:

Didn't think so!

I'll lose a tenner just to see him sweat :twisted:
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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #26 on: April 01, 2009, 12:21:54 PM »
Anyone want a tenner down on Alan still having the same gear in 12 months time? 

A year !!!  That's ridiculous !  Surely no-one keeps gear that long !

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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #27 on: April 02, 2009, 09:40:23 AM »
1) Realising I could not respond adequately to someone saying " play us a tune then" .

Oh, I know that feeling.   :(


You could always play to annoy your neighbours?

I like my neighbours !

Presumably they're not like mine, who has built himself a little bus-stop-like shelter in the back garden so he can sit out there at 3 in the morning shouting "JAH!  RASTA-FAR-EYE!" at random intervals....  :|

Blimey he sounds a bit mad! You could have a jam with him Philly!
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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #28 on: April 02, 2009, 07:42:14 PM »
1) Realising I could not respond adequately to someone saying " play us a tune then" .

Oh, I know that feeling.   :(


i know it too! even if i'm just starting to live it like a real problem... certainly not for the bloody tunes people wants me to play, but because i'm starting to feel much less secure about my playing skills than i was just a couple of years ago...

You could always play to annoy your neighbours?

I like my neighbours !

Presumably they're not like mine, who has built himself a little bus-stop-like shelter in the back garden so he can sit out there at 3 in the morning shouting "JAH!  RASTA-FAR-EYE!" at random intervals....  :|
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make him a friend... so he'll hopefully begin to OFFER...   :lol:
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Re: I feel lost
« Reply #29 on: April 02, 2009, 07:46:33 PM »
1) Realising I could not respond adequately to someone saying " play us a tune then" .

Oh, I know that feeling.   :(


i know it too! even if i'm just starting to live it like a real problem... certainly not for the bloody tunes people wants me to play, but because i'm starting to feel much less secure about my playing skills than i was just a couple of years ago...

You could always play to annoy your neighbours?

I like my neighbours !

Presumably they're not like mine, who has built himself a little bus-stop-like shelter in the back garden so he can sit out there at 3 in the morning shouting "JAH!  RASTA-FAR-EYE!" at random intervals....  :|

make him a friend... so he'll hopefully begin to OFFER...   :lol:
Mule, MQ, Stockholm, CS, RY, MM, PK, ANB, CNB, AWP, CWP, PiG90...

too many? ;)