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Twinfan

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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #30 on: June 25, 2009, 11:46:11 AM »
A quick update on my situation for you all.

The singer had a part share in the PA, so I'd asked him in the 'goodbye' email to let me know when was convenient to collect it and to give him his cash.  He replied with a very short email saying he'd bring it to outside our rehearsal rooms the following night, which was fine.

Myself and our drummer went to meet him and we said hello from across the road in a friendly manner.  He didn't say a word, opened the boot, took the money, put the PA on the pavement and left in silence.  Not a single word, with a face like we'd just drowned his cat in front of him.  I didn't exepct all jolly niceness, but the behaviour of an adult would have been good  :(

He's since binned off all the band members as friends on Facebook and hasn't said a word to any of us.  Clearly he's upset, but it's only a band isn't it?  Ah well, seems like it was for the best if that's the attitude he has to things.

On a positive note ( :) ), we auditioned a female singer and she was pretty good!  It would change the feel and set list of the band quite a bit with girlie rock vocals, so we need to decide if we want to change direction a bit.  We have a guy auditioning the week after next too, who would slot in with very little effort, so it may be that we have a tough choice to make.

Oh, and I'm heading off to a vocal coach for my first session next week.............

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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #31 on: June 25, 2009, 12:07:56 PM »
Oh, and I'm heading off to a vocal coach for my first session next week.............

That's the way forward!  Then no-one has to just stand around looking like a tw@t when the band goes into an extended jam.  :D
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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #32 on: June 25, 2009, 12:42:47 PM »
Ha ha!  Exactly!  :lol:

I'm looking to get my backing vocals spot on, but I'm also after an assessment to see if there's a reasonable voice in there that could be brushed up.  I'd love to front my own band one day...

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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #33 on: June 25, 2009, 01:36:37 PM »
Has the lady got big baps?
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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #34 on: June 25, 2009, 02:56:04 PM »
Not as big as the dude you referred to earllier  ;)

The bloke who's interested has just quit his current band ( :o ) so we're squeezing him in for an audition next Wedneday.  Fingers crossed, but he's the current front runner for the job...

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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #35 on: June 25, 2009, 03:12:50 PM »
One of my mates refers to a band situation as "a benign dictatorship at best" - i.e. democracy only gets you so far - at some point somehow has to say "No - we do it like this"!

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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #36 on: June 25, 2009, 03:36:34 PM »
Exactly!  I can't see how Hamfist's band works at all!  You always need someone to call the shots occasionally in my experience  :)

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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #37 on: June 25, 2009, 06:32:12 PM »
He's since binned off all the band members as friends on Facebook

woah, now that a proper 2009 turn up of the nose right there

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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #38 on: June 25, 2009, 07:03:43 PM »
He must be hurt and humiliated and that can be difficult to take.
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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #39 on: June 25, 2009, 07:19:49 PM »
Yep, guess so.  I do feel sorry for him.

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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #40 on: June 25, 2009, 07:47:34 PM »
Exactly!  I can't see how Hamfist's band works at all!  You always need someone to call the shots occasionally in my experience  :)

I've been in a load of bands and I have to say that my current band is very refreshing in the attitude of us all. However, I'm well aware that it is not the norm.

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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #41 on: June 25, 2009, 07:54:44 PM »
You're a lucky man then  :D

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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #42 on: June 25, 2009, 10:42:38 PM »
We have had a dose of the old band politics lately- bloody tedious.
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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #43 on: June 25, 2009, 11:27:29 PM »
And now the 'behind my back' emails have started  :roll:

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Re: Being a band leader sucks sometimes :o(
« Reply #44 on: June 26, 2009, 03:11:58 PM »
Could be a coup, better hire some mercenaries...  :lol:
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