Cheers to feline and co for weighing in as well, I'm definitely going to leave the scalloping for now and have a luthier refret it with tall fretwire (EVO 'gold' FW55090). I guess just playing with constant awareness of my finger pressure I should be fine and i'm going to be playing very little anyways until my arms are healed.
Just curious though, are the inlays really necessary? After a while don't you get a feel for where you are without needing to look?