Hi breadfan
wrt/ the "calibrated pots" stuff, the point is that components have a tolerance wrt/ their official value. For pots, the canonical tolerance is 10% IIRC, so a 500K pot could range from 450 to 550k, which indeed makes a difference. Having calibrated pots means that your four pots will (well... should) have the same effectivue value, so you get a more evn response from them.
Now whether it's worth the price or not is up to you. For the record, you can get 4 "ordinary" CTS 500K audio taper pots and 2 NOS pio caps here for about 43€ (postage not included). Aslo, having "uncalibrated" pots can be fine too - if for example you want a bit more hi-end from your neck pup, test your pots with a multimeter and use the ones with the highest values for the neck.
My 2 cents...