We're in the same position, Mr Bump. We've started pushing ourselves on the web, are having a go at a local battle of the bands, and we're taking on a few London gigs (which are all, you need 15 people to come along nonsense...), and generally trying to make a good impression with as many promoters as possible. I really don't know what the next level is or how to get there, but we're doing just about everything we can think of to make it happen! Recording for 3 days next, then next round of battle of the bands, then 3 gigs lined up - all in the next 4 weeks, it's going to mental!!
It's a lot of effort, and I can see why people get fed up of it! Some promoters are really good, and build up their events into really pretty sizeable gigs - those are the one's we're focussing on just now.
Good luck!
Roo