Wow, guys, thanks!
Slartibartfarst42, you actually did mention my problem. Appreciate your input.
Regarding nailboms - from the beginning i thought that is my way, but when i tried them i simply didn't like it's "voicing" (Cbomb on mahogany Esp). As for me it's too "artificial" in high mids... i don't think it will change on alder, just the feel isn't right. Then i've tried on mayones setius (mahogany) - same. Like something is between you and amp, especially comparing to super-mega-responsive and open cold sweat.
Also i believe MM is not for singing leads, i belive Alnico will do this job better, but i'll have a chance to try it in recent...
I think that i'll put holydiver in my future ash Regius pro, and this time i'll go to a open coil warpig.
But, i don't know nothing about high output neck pup's. What will make a good pair to Apig in bright axe?. Goal - decent output balance (i always played with bit less powerful neck pu's), more character than Sh-1 or 2 for example, but not too wooooody and muddy (neck nailbomb in mahogany for example)
Thank you.