Nice photos there, Andrew (expect of course the horrible telecaster :P)!
JDC - in addition to playing with the aperture (which is most powerfully done with an SLR, I'm afraid!), using a relatively high power zoom lens and separating the subject from the background will lead to compression that has a similar effect to the out-of-focus blur from using a very wide aperture. Used in combination (ie a 200-400mm zoom lens with f/4.0 or wider aperture) can get you some astonishing shots, but this really doesn't help you specifically I'm afraid!!
While you'll struggle to achieve some of these with a compact camera, getting the subject as close as possible and separating from the background is probably your best bet.
Good luck!
Roo