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Author Topic: Moving to a place on your own... What to keep an eye out for/remember?  (Read 9601 times)

MrBump

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When I lived on my own, I was always wary of the landlord living downstairs, and I made a point of checking that my kidneys hadn't been removed each morning.
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All excellent advice.

I'd especially agree with the inventory stuff - if only to give you piece of mind when you're nearing moving out again.

When we bought recently, we were moving out of a place that I'd been renting for ten years. It was in a "only a bloke would rent this" state when I moved in, and we (me and the agent) never managed to get the inventory taken because of the amount of cr@p that was there that we had to ship back to the landlord halfway through the first year. Because of this "no inventory" I'd pretty much written off the deposit. Especially because the some of the wear-and-tear was actually accidents from us. It was a bit of a p1ss-off though.

I actually got a very pleasant surprise from the current folk at the Estate Agent when I handed in notice, though. A) They were very sad to see us go - we were top of the list in the reliable tenants chart, B) Their view was "ten years wear-and-tear, landlord never done any maintenance, no inventory = tuff sh1t on the landlord (and luckily we weren't working here when that was missed!)", and C) The landlord then proceeded to p1ss them off big time over future rent expectations and not wanting the place empty during renovation.

Yes, our deposit was in escrow or whatever it's called, and had been for a couple of years (the Estate Agent started doing this recently). Any disputes were likely to have been decided "fairly". The landlord had x days after we moved out to say "I want...". On receipt of that, we would have had x days to say "but...", and then the 3rd party body would make a binding decision based on the information they've received from us, the agent, and the landlord.

However, none of this came to pass for us. The landlord had p1ssed the agent off so much that, during the check-out, he said to me "well, she's shot herself in the foot trying to decorate before you moved out - as far as I'm concerned I can't charge you for any damage, nor for any cleaning.  At the most, you ought to be liable for our time in this visit... I dunno, I'll see what I can do. I'll put in a report to say that everything is exactly as should be - next people you'll hear from should be our accounts department..."

A week later I got a call, and the accounts lady told me that I was getting the whole lot back (even the checkout fee, in the contract, was waived) and what were my bank details so that she could pay it? And then she went on to say how sorry she'd be not to have our account anymore (it appears she's the only person who'd been there all that time and so had dealt with my stuff from the begining) - I was the only tenant she'd never had to chase!


All this might be all very heart-warming to hear about, but I am aware that we had a particularly easy ride. I understand that - as long as it's being done according to the "regulations"(!) - this side of renting is getting smoother. Not sure I believe it, but we did have a good experience. Our Estate Agents turned out to be "good guys" - they weren't always, though. They were pretty naff over the years!

However, what is not included here is all the angst and heart-burn I went through (over the course of several years, at each contract renewal, leading up to us finally leaving). This would have been considerably less if I'd thought I was sat on any evidence that showed what we believed we were responsible for damaging and what we believed we weren't responsible for.

As it turned out, it was wasted angst (we didn't even pay for the stuff I would have coughed up for because I did it!), but a decent inventory and supporting evidence would have made me feel a whole lot more secure.


Anyway, good luck :D - living on your own is BRILLIANT - don't let anyone tell you you'll go crazy, they're the crazy ones and they're all out to get you, it's true, they are! :lol:
« Last Edit: June 18, 2012, 09:40:05 AM by AndyR »
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Cheers for this, what are people's experiences like of shared accommodation?

When I start uni I'll be with 3 to 6 people, I got to pick which type of people to live with but I just picked the middle option for everything as I didn't want flat mates who'd stay in and be boring all the time.

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I'd go for single sex.

Women have a different view of "clean enough" than men - neither's wrong nor right, just different, it creates endless hastle.

You end up sleeping with all the members of the opposite sex that live in the place, this also creates endless hastle.

Mixed sex has good points as well. So if you end up in a mixed sex place - try and think like a girl over cleaning, and try not to knob anybody who lives there, you'll be so much happier in the long run.
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what are people's experiences like of shared accommodation?

A mix of misery, bickering, childish sulks, unpaid bills, filthy fridges, noisy sexual activities and someone's girlfriend microwaving her knickers to kill the yeast.

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...someone's girlfriend microwaving her knickers to kill the yeast.
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Cheers for this, what are people's experiences like of shared accommodation?

When I start uni I'll be with 3 to 6 people, I got to pick which type of people to live with but I just picked the middle option for everything as I didn't want flat mates who'd stay in and be boring all the time.

though initially worried about shared accommodation, I've been sharing since I left home (not sure when that was now, maybe 10 years?) and its brilliant. obviously you have to move in with the right peeps, but i really like that outside influence. and it stops me going peculiar which is good. mixed sex all the way i reckon - 50/50 split if possible.

« Last Edit: June 21, 2012, 05:04:41 PM by gwEm »
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Cheers for this, what are people's experiences like of shared accommodation?

When I start uni I'll be with 3 to 6 people, I got to pick which type of people to live with but I just picked the middle option for everything as I didn't want flat mates who'd stay in and be boring all the time.

terrible was my experience, get to know them first! ask if anyone is an insomniac (most important question) you want to live somewhere where you can sleep and eat safely, also never pay rent until the landlord fixes the house, make a rotor for washing up etc, you will ALWAYS get one person who does no jobs and expects everyone to clean for them. Don't live with druggies, hippies or alcoholics who go out leaving the front door unlocked whilst you are asleep   :D
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^ this :lol:

And the problem is, you'll be thinking someone is doing no jobs, or whatever else is annoying... and they'll be thinking the same about you... :lol:

Several people are concerned about going "peculiar" if you live on your own, and maybe you do, but overall (having experienced both) I'd rather risk going peculiar myself!
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^ this :lol:

And the problem is, you'll be thinking someone is doing no jobs, or whatever else is annoying... and they'll be thinking the same about you... :lol:

Several people are concerned about going "peculiar" if you live on your own, and maybe you do, but overall (having experienced both) I'd rather risk going peculiar myself!

I think I got very unlucky in my case, the guy above my room was an insomniac and there was about 30cm or floor space with no insulation so when he moved it sounded like a hammer on the ceiling lol don't know how I coped looking back
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