Must admit to being really sad/disappointed after reading the previous pages of this thread.
I think the BKP forum must be one of the best in terms of quality of posts, information etc. - it would be a shame if it disintegrated into the shambles of some of the other music forums - there are already signs of some of the long term members leaving/not bothering to post.
I'm probably one of the oldest members on this forum. Age has its disadvantages (e.g. wrinkles, hair falling out and growing in places where you don't want it to :( ) but you do tend to learn a few lessons along the way. Here's a few things I've learnt over the years:-
1 - Every opinion/point of view is bound to have an opposite - I'm afraid no amount of name calling/profanities will change that (Newton's 3rd law - "For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction")
2- Just because you personally don't like a certain band or type of music doesn't automatically mean it's cr@p. (It's like saying "I use Warpigs in my guitars - therefore Apaches are cr@p"). I used to have a very narrow taste in music but my son got me listening to stuff I would never have considered and this has greatly expanded my music tastes and influenced/improved my guitar playing. There has been some stuff I have really disliked but then will hear a neat guitar line and steal it and adapt to my own playing style. Open your mind up to other styles.
3 - However good you are, or think you are, there is ALWAYS someone (many in my case) better than you.
4 - Anger/hate is a very destructive feeling. If you really feel strongly about a comment or opinion someone has expressed don't lash out and call them names - try a logical 'tongue in cheek' approach.
It would be great if the posters on the previous pages have had time to cool down a bit and realise the futility of some of what they have written - but I think it's probably a bit too early for them to kiss and make up..
Anyone wants to call me names after reading this it's OK - I've been called most of them already
