Giving away all my secrets here, but it's for the greater good..... I hope. I can't keep it a secret any longer. At close to 40 my chances of becoming a guitar god aren't good. Anyhoo there's website by a session guy in LA who was very well know for his VH tabs, none more accurate. A year or so ago he pulled them off when that whole tab site/music publisher thing started. Now he does lessons in the "Style Of". You won't find a better lesson site on the web. Lots of FREE VID lesson. He also sells instructional dvds and cdrs. I've got a bunch of his stuff and it's great. So go check out some free lessons and his instructional stuff. Mentioning my name won't get you a discount :D He currently has a VH style dvd called Vin Heuton out and one coming out called Steel Dirigible (Led Zep

). The Vin Heuton thing is 8 songs in EVH style with complete lessons and tabs on each. Playing EVH songs is one thing playing that syle is something else.
Disclaimer: Don't work for him, don't know him. But he did answer an ear training email once. Like I said I've got a bunch of his stuff if you've got questions. Enjoy.
http://www.jfrocks3.com/guitar/guitarlesson/index.html