I've had 3 or 4 guitars with the 490R/498T combination - I agree that the 490R sounds better than the 498T (the neck position is a lot more forgiving than the bridge), but never had a problem with a volume mismatch.
It's a better match than the 490R/490T combo you get in SG Specials, IMO.
Anyway, I still think in theory the BD should be OK with the 490R.