I used to have real "issues" with this kinda thing when I was playing live - I sympathise greatly.
I also used to have trouble with acquaintances thinking they could get in on the "guest-list" for low- or nil- paying gigs. This was especially irksome when we had an internal policy where even our other halves paid (or we paid for them personally).
You reminded me of this little exchange, and I found a copy on my PC. Not sure when I wrote it down, or when it happened, but it happened :lol: (must be approaching 10 years ago...)
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The "guest list" issue for amateur bands... You're doing this gig, and this bloke turns up at the desk (usually the same one every gig) for a £2 admission.
"Hey Angus! (my nickname) Any chance of getting in on the guest list?"
"Er, no..."
"Aww why not? I'm your mate."
"Look round this room. There's only 30 people here - I actually know them all. They've all paid - including my missus, and she helped carry the gear in. If I let you in what happens? Besides, at the moment, if you pay now, that's takings of £62. The venue wants 50% that's £31, the PA cost us £30..."
"hey you're in profit! cool..."
"...Petrol for the band vehicles tonite is £15. There's 4 of us, so currently it's costing us £3.50 each to play here. There's been two rehearsals since the last gig - that's another £15 each. And on top of that I'm using £10 worth of new strings tonite to keep you entertained and they'll need replacing tomorrow. All in all it is costing me £28.50 to be here tonite which is, er, 1,425% of what we're asking you to pay"
"so, er, no chance of getting on the guest list then?"
"fraid not... there isn't one..."
"fascist... don't know why I bother"
"neither do I darling - look, do you to come in? I've got to go and tune up - oh yeah, new batteries, those were £2.50 yesterday"
"fascist..." (empties pocket full of 2p pieces to pay entrance fee, proceeds to the bar and spends £20 on beer)
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Keep music live, etc :lol: