In addition to an attenuator, you could get a 2x12 cab for home use with lower efficiency speakers in. Unfortunately, as I like no speaker breakup at all, and these speakers seem to be aimed more at rock and blues, I have no experience with such low efficiency speakers! If you can make the cab less efficient, you can attenuate less and hopefully achieve a better tone at low volumes.
I would advise against cranking at home. Neighbours can be very useful people, and it's far better to live somewhere where you can genuinely smile and say hello to people around you than to have a more adversarial feeling in the neighbourhood.