BKs tend to be bassier than EMGs by default, but you cant get the same ultra-tight 'thunk' out of the low end with them, no. You may get a tight *enough* low end for you taste, and 'tight' in the grand scheme of things, but its far easier in my experience with EMGs, and all things being equal the EMGs will always be tighter.
If you didnt like 18V for riffing...well, that means that you basically shaved a little off the outright aggression of the EMG and found it lacking. BKs are all less aggressive than that still. If you play lightly youre going to have to dig in a lot more by comparison to get them to attack at much as EMGs (especially at 9V).
I cant say I know what you mean by hearing anything 'in preamp voltage'. I can say that though I cant swear that it is EMGs, youre gonna get closer to the sound in that track you posted with EMGs than any BK. It would be easier. On the other hand, if you want one piclup (or pair) that covers all the tonal territory you want there, I'm not sure such a pickup exists at all, but EMGs wouldnt be my first choice. I love them and they are in my opinion unrivalled in modern metal tones. And a lot of less modern metal. And they most certainly can do other things (dave gilmour and mark knopfler, anyone??), but for me they wouldnt be a go to. I have guitars with passives in, still, for that reason.
Within EMG land, I would recommend an 85-60 combo. Youre gonna get a beefier, smoother high gain sound thats no less tight or aggressive from the 85 and outstanding cleans, lower gain and fluid as $%&# lead sounds out of th 60.
In BKs I'm sticking with miracle man bridge and would say cold sweat neck. They would be the closest analogues to the 85-60 pair, but will be less capable between them of ultra-tight mechanical aggression or facemelting shred, but will give very good cleans (in the CS; I actually prefer the 60s cleans myself, but the CS cleans are excellent), and will both respond to a volume knob and lower gain settings more naturally than the EMGs.
Your call. I dont think you can have it all here, I'm afraid. Theres gonna be a compromise.