so i think right now i'm fully functional besides when in neck position i can't control individual volumes. all i have to do is switch the wires around connected to each volume pot, right? as in, reverse the two on one pot, then the other two on the other pot...?
There are many ways to skin a cat. First off the main wire from the pickup goes to a tag on the volume pot.
The SD diagram shows it going to the first lug and then a wire from the second lug goes to the switch.
The GE diagram shows it going to the middle lug, then a wire from the first lug to the switch
the 3rd lug goes straight to the back of the pot on all volume controls
Both work fine, but slightly differently. when the neck pickup is selected the neck volume is in control - the other does nothing, when the bridge is selected the bridge volume is in control - thats the same on both diagrams
They differ when you get to the middle switch setting. With the SD diagram when one volume is turned down the guitar will go quiet even if the other volume is up. WIth the GE diagram the volumes will still work independantly - so you would need to turn both down to make the guitar quiet.
Some people find the SD one annoying because it doesnt allow you to blend the pickups, some people find the GE one annoying because it takes longer to silence the guitar.... Personal preference
the tone control should work in all settings.