I always thought teles (headstocks in particular), looked pathetic, but I've come round.
Mine cost £40, took out the neck pup and I play slide on it. At the end of every gig I chuck it on the ground and walk off stage. I couldn't do that with a super strat, and certainly not with my tokai.
Ok, the tone certainly isn't for everyone, and if you don't like the playability, fair enough. But I'm with wez here, just because they don't have spiky headstocks, shiny flame tops and snake inlays, doesn't make them gay. Less so, if anything. I think PRSs are the gayest looking guitars.
anyway, homophobia aside, I'd get a Decent, cheap, LP, strat, tele and SG. then spend the 2K. Every guitarist prefers some type of guitar to all the others, and with 1 year experience, she is nowhere near ready to spend that huge amount of cash on something because she reckons it's pretty.
If she must, steer her towards feline and BKPs, so at least someone deserving gets the money.
personally, I'd hate her so much for undeservedly being able to spend so much money, I'd spend 1800 on the guitar and amp I wanted, and the rest on another two that look almost identical. she'd never tell the difference.